Hidden Video Cameras

Babysit the Babysitter

It's a frightful consideration, to be sure, but all parents have to doubt the trustworthiness of the person they have trusted with their children. If all goes well, you're only out a few hundred dollars; should the unthinkable occur, price is not an issue.

But babysitters can be quite put off by the possibility of being taped. Nanny cams, as they have come to be called, can be a deal breaker if presented to the wrong caregiver.

Frankness pays off

The best way to approach the situation is to be frank and honest. If the camera is visible, don't lie about its purpose. Anyone will see that they are both being monitored and lied to. Tell sitters that they wouldn't be there if you didn't trust them, but the camera is for added safety. After all, few parents use only one sitter, and everyone can agree that not everyone can be trusted.

If the camera is hidden, the story is a bit different. You're safe from being accused of spying if you just let the sitter know that there is surveillance. Most nannies understand and even consider it a good idea. But again, not addressing that the camera is there risks insulting their intelligence. That is, if you feel like telling the nanny about the camera at all. Ultimately, the decision is up to you and you should feel comfortable telling your nanny or not.